Where to Meet Married Women (10 easy ways)

Maybe you’re a married man who’s trapped in a relationship that lost all the spark and passion months ago, but you’re not ready for the drama and financial struggles that come with a divorce. Or maybe you’re a single guy who’s looking for a committed relationship, as those one-night stands aren’t cutting it anymore. Either way, it’s time to inject a little fire into your life. You could hop on a dating app and talk to single women, but where’s the fun in that? Anyone can do it—you’ve done it yourself plenty of times. It’s time to up the stakes a little. You want a relationship that’s intense and passionate, a forbidden romance where you’re always looking over your shoulder for fear you might get caught. You’re looking to meet married women.

Most of the married women around you might seem happy in their relationships. But you’d be shocked if you knew how many of these women are secretly miserable, quietly fantasizing about leaving their husbands and starting over with someone new. They might not even realize it, but many of them are seeking someone just like you. Someone who’s not afraid to take charge, take the risk, and instill their lives with the love and passion that they’ve been dreaming of. Your perfect woman is out there, waiting for you to free her from the constraints of marriage and sweep her off her feet. All you have to do now is find her.

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What’s the Best Place to Meet Married Women?

Of course, most married women looking to have an affair typically don’t advertise it on social media (although some do, and you’d be surprised how common it can be.) To find your dream girl, you’re going to have to do a little searching. You’ll have to dig around on social media, connect with affair-dating apps, and attend local events in your area. If a website looks sketchy, don’t be afraid to back out—you want to meet married women on a site that’ll protect your privacy. In most cases, you’ll have to make the first move. Some married women are bolder than others, but more often than not, they’ll need a little push to get the relationship started.

If you think you’re ready to take your dating life to the next level, here’s ten places where you can meet married women and begin the secret, passionate affair that most people can only dream of.

1. Join an Affair Dating Site

This is probably the best way to meet married women, as you’re connecting directly with thousands of people just like you who want to have an affair. Websites like Affairs Meet allow you to connect with married women in your area who are bored with their marriages and looking to have a little fun. The websites are safe and secure, although we recommend showing a little caution—don’t share your entire life story with a complete stranger right away. Instead, affair dating sites give you the opportunity to enjoy a slow-burn romance that’s as steamy as it is satisfying. Visit Affairs Meet when you’re ready to meet married women online.

2. Sign Up for Tinder

You’d be surprised by the number of married women that are looking for men on Tinder. They’re easy to find, and they’re easy to flatter—one such woman was thrilled and delighted by the attention she received on the website. However, most of these women are actually in an open relationship and looking for a “third” to complete their unit. If that’s what you’re into, go for it—but be aware that the husband is fully involved, which takes all the passion and secrecy out of the relationship. Married women who are actually sneaking around behind their husband’s back are much harder to find. In a pinch, try writing in your Tinder bio that you’re looking for married women in a closed relationship.

3. Check out a Facebook Group

Some Facebook groups, such as “Lonely women and men looking for true love,” purport to connect lonely people with each other. If you go this route, you’ll probably want to make a fake Facebook profile, as you don’t want your real name and identity connected with an online affair (unless that’s part of the thrill for you, and if that’s the case—go for it.) Be wary of who you’re talking to, as Facebook is rife with people using fake identities to stir up trouble. But if you haven’t had luck anywhere else, you might end up finding the right woman in your area.

4. Hit Up the Local Bar

You probably won’t want to go during regular hours, when the bar is crowded with college girls, and you’ll probably want to skip “Singles Night,” too. But as one blogger points out, some blogs host “Oldies Nights” where they play music from the 70s and 80s. Events like this are more likely to be attended by older women—who are also much more likely to be married. If you attend one of these events, try striking up a conversation and see where it takes you.

5. Attend an Event Popular With Married Couples

Do some research and see what’s popular with married couples in your area. BestLife suggests cycling, volunteering, and music festivals as just a few of the places you can meet couples looking to inject a little fun in their relationship. But just because they’re trying doesn’t mean they’ll be successful: there’s always that one couple that isn’t meant to be. Try befriending one of these couples, feel out the direction that their relationship is headed, and go from there.

6. Go to a Wedding

Okay, you probably won’t end up going home with the bride (although we’d be pretty impressed if you did.) But weddings are always full of married couples, and it’s usually not hard to tell who wants to be there and who was dragged there by their spouse. In fact, weddings have become infamous for the numerous hook-ups that happen after the celebration is over. It’s a prime place to meet local married women, so even if you’re not a fan of weddings, it’s time to rent a tux and scope out the married wives.

7. Find an Event Specifically for Married Couples

This step is a little tricky, but if you can find an event that’s specifically geared toward married couples—a wedding convention, a “date night” event, a couples hiking trip, etc.—you’re planting yourself right in the middle of a whole pool of married women. Of course, you’ll have to come up with some kind of excuse as to why you’re by yourself; maybe tell them that your wife is sick and couldn’t attend, but you’d already paid for the tickets. Or get one of your female friends to pretend to be your wife while you start talking to a woman who’s actually married.

8. Join a Traditional Dating Site

A traditional dating site isn’t necessarily the best site to meet married women, but it doesn’t have the same hook-up culture as Tinder and it’s more discrete than an affair website—you can even talk to your friends and family about it and none will be the wiser. However, you’ll have to do some digging to find women who are actively looking to have an affair. Dating websites do have the advantage of offering complex profiles so you can match yourself to women who are highly compatible with you.

9. Travel Across the Country—Or the World

Women love the thrill of the handsome, mysterious stranger who rides into town one day and changes their lives irrevocably. We can’t guarantee that you’ll have a whirlwind movie-style romance, but you’ll expose yourself to married women all across the country who are much more likely to have an affair with a man they just met, rather than one that lives in their hometown. And when you’re far from home, you can reinvent yourself and become whoever you want to be.

10. Keep an Eye on Your Inner Circle

We’re not suggesting that you break up your friends’ marriages. But at the same time, there’s nothing more exciting and passionate than a whirlwind affair where both parties have the risk of getting caught. If one of your friends isn’t happy with her marriage, maybe it’s time to start confessing the feelings you have for her. You might become the hero that sweeps her off her feet—and you’ll plunge into a passionate love affair that will forever alter the course of your lives.

Affairs Meet is a safe, secure website where married people can make a discreet connection with other affair-seeking people in their area. Join Affairs Meet and start an affair dating today!